Lots of people are having trouble in marriage. As the age increase it’s the time to look for a men or women that they could have for the rest of their life but some people are tired of looking for a perfect partner. Others may say “Is it destiny not to have someone who would love me?” but bec. There is this Internet, marriage today is not difficult at all, people date for a short time and what’s next? It’s the marriage but after that? Couple problem and then divorce. What a life….
Websites such as www.findsomeromance.com or Filipinaeyes.com are being visit by people who are interested in having a lifetime partner.they offer mail order bride but behind that, its like their trying to sell women who are so called female escort. They show information about the women and the male would just pick who he want. People behind this scene are abusive. They don’t think about the worst part, all they care is the money. This act is unethical at all, it destroy the image of what relationship is. This includes the slavery and prostitution that is a big violation to human dignity.
there is a site the tells about the facts about mail order bride http://listverse.com/2010/02/17/top-10-facts-about-mail-order-brides/ and the no. 9 gives me an interest bec. It talk about the danger involved. It is definitely correct, in having this type of affair, the danger is there. People who becomes partner due to this kind of method are not inlove at all. Those couple doesn’t know each other at all. some report talks about a wife that is being murdered. Some men also who seek a wife are just for them to have a maid.
There is great difference between the mail order brides industry or companies that produce escort services and meeting someone over the Internet in a chat room. In the chatting, you are the one who choose who you want to talk to. If there is someone you like, you could have time knowing him/her before you come to a decision in marrying him/her. You are free to decide if you want to expose yourself or not. In mail order bride, you apply to become a female escort in which if someone would like you then he’s the one for you. Sometimes women are being abused bec. Of these. But both of this are just reasons, reasons of what? In our country, women marries foreigner not bec they love them but because they just want to earn money or become rich. One said “I never thought this idea would even cross my mind but it might be the easiest way to make good money fast. I am a student and have loads of bills to pay. I would like to hear about anyone who is or was an escort who could tell me what to expect. I have never done anything like that so I am not sure if it would be right for me...” from: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20101227220116AAa9HSJ
In Our growing industry, this kind of relationship is a sort like arranged marriage. You are being paired to someone that you don’t want but you must. The only different is just in arranged marriage, your family already decide while in mail order bride, you are the one who put yourself to have an arranged marriage.
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